Yep that was kind Yoshi2889.

I was just like her about 2 or 3 years ago. I bothered everyone I even suspected knew something about computers!
Then I met Smoky, who introduced me to HarshReality, and then I found bigguy and the rest of the crew here. Whew, thankfully they took pity on a poor old woman and were very kind and patient with me. I really learned a lot from just reading the posts on all of their sites. Plus I ask questions and they are always quick to answer in language I can understand.
So you find the info she needs to read on how to keep herself and her machine safe on line and what can happen to the machine from spyware and such. She'll be a pro in no time.
Me? I still don't really know diddly, but I manage to stay away from serious viruses and can usually fix the problems (short of a fried mother board) my honeybear gets into.